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" Oberman Academy of Maternity " is a fertility education promotion platform under Oberman® . It focuses on the theme of maternity education and continues to provide more evidence-based information. 随的是分娩的未知，意想不到的分娩经历也许温馨也许痛苦将会一直回荡在生命里，孕育与母乳喂养也是人生，我们希望 它是一段快乐的人生时光。 The joy of conceiving life is accompanied by the unknown of childbirth. Unexpected birth experience may be warm or painful will always echo in life. Breeding and breastfeeding are also life. We hope it is a happy life.
提供孕家庭需要的陪伴与支持。 We provide information on fertility education and provide the companionship and support needed by pregnant families. May every woman in this life gain strength to leave a beautiful memory.
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In the first issue of Qihua in 2017, "It's you, would you be a single mom?" When the instructor made a final conclusion, Zhang Quanling said, "I worry about my child falling into the toilet during the day, and worry about my child at home at night. It ’s going to be out of the pan ... Can you help me with these two situations when Dad is here? "
Most mothers should have experienced the situation of "father absent", so from this perspective, which mother has not been a single mother for a while?
Another variety show just broadcast "Mom is Superman"
Yi Nengjing's husband Qin Hao, his daughter cried to drink milk, he forcibly held up and rolled back, tossing his daughter into tears. It wasn't until the daughter returned to her mother's arms and ate her milk that she stopped crying and calmed down. Why doesn't Dad know why his daughter is crying? Why does mother Yi Jingjing know exactly how her daughter wants to drink milk?
孩子长大些后出来工作，在录制节目期间还在拍《如懿传》，经常拍完戏后连夜赶回家，休息的时间很少，第二天还要直接送孩子上课。 Another mother Hu Ke, the child came out to work when he grew up, and was still filming "Biography of Rugao" during the recording of the show. He often rushed home after the filming overnight, with little rest time, and he would send it directly the next day. Children at class. And once Hu Ke started trying to resume work, Sha Yi said that she had been dumping her family to work ...
It is not difficult to balance work and family, and her husband's natural attitude makes her sad.
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A husband who bears half of the responsibility in an independent family unit will experience similar mood swings as his expectant mother during the pregnancy of his wife. Prospective dads must re-evaluate their roles to take care of the family and become role models for children and supporters of their wives, so they need to adapt.
），这样一个被推出的行为，就逐渐演变成了准爸爸“理所当然”的主动远离。 First, physiologically, the mother's natural intimacy to the baby is a direct link to the body. Dad was unable to directly establish and feel this layer of parent-child link from the beginning. Second, in the psychological state, because of traditional concepts People's understanding of the involvement of father in childbirth and childbirth will naturally exclude him from this process (he doesn't understand, he needs work to earn money to support his family, and he needs more sleep to ensure His working status the next day, etc. ), such a behavior that has been promoted has gradually evolved into a quasi-dad "taken for granted" . The later Dad gets involved in the parenting process, the slower he and the child will build intimacy.
Anthropologist Margaret Mead discovered the power of the close relationship between father and baby: "Developing societies that require men to work away from home do not allow young men to enter the delivery room, touch the newborn, or This behavior is regarded as a taboo in society. Because they know that once society accepts this behavior, young fathers will 'hook up' on it, and will no longer be willing to leave the family and do what they should do. " Because the growth and development of the baby will continue to bring joy and excitement to the parents, for the parents, from the experience of participating in each development stage of the newborn, they will continue to feel surprises and benefit greatly. 2014年一篇发表在《美国科学院学报》的脑科学研究也证实了这种身份转变对男性的影响。研究者发现，在照顾孩子的过程中，父亲的大脑会发生变化。父亲的“大脑回路的活跃程度”，与“和孩子相处的时间”成正比，和孩子在一起的时间越长，活跃程度越高。 ） 如此一来，婴儿也等于积极参与了自己的发展过程，因此 最初投 入建立亲子紧密联系的能量现在也就转化成为了持久的凝聚力。 (A 2014 brain science study published in the Journal of the American Academy of Sciences also confirmed the impact of this identity shift on men. Researchers have found that the father's brain changes during the care of the child. The father's "brain The degree of activity of the circuit is directly proportional to the time spent with the child. The longer you spend with the child, the more active you are. ) In this way, the baby is also actively involved in his own development process, so he initially invested The energy that builds close parent-child relationships has now turned into lasting cohesion.
Parenting requires the joint participation of both husband and wife and the need to cooperate and support each other in the process. This is a complete team. The supporting facilities in the entire society have not been really ready. Of course, it is understandable that it is impossible for every father to truly participate in the daily routine of childcare. However, we must believe that every father, when he was a father, wanted to participate in it. He just did not know where to start, and in a state of confusion, one should not take it for granted from the beginning. Pushing things aside, rejecting his involvement and cracking down on his enthusiasm. Everyone involved is responsible for the release of a film about "widowed single mothers in marriage". In fact, precisely because 和妈妈一样正在经历人生的第一次，所以他们同样的需要获得充分的支持，来协助他适应成为父亲这个角色的转变：从一开始的孕期到分娩的时候，准爸爸就应该积极参与其中，一同学习、一起经历、共同成长为父母。 Prospective fathers and mothers are experiencing the first time in their lives, so they also need to receive full support to help him adapt to the role of becoming a father: from the beginning of pregnancy to childbirth, prospective fathers should actively participate Among them, study together, experience together, and grow up together as parents.
想安稳的上个洗手间都是一件奢侈的事情，了解她见缝插针统筹安排妥当全家人的吃穿住行是多么的难能可贵 ……妈妈也不是超人，在她努力成为一个好妈妈、好妻子的过程中，数不尽的繁琐细节时刻牵动着她的神经（甚至只是一块带着💩的尿布），这个过程中会有很多焦躁和压力要承担和消化。 Only when the father participates in the process of pregnancy with a positive attitude from the beginning can he really see the hardship and difficulty of his lover, the mother of the child, during the whole process of pregnancy and childbirth, and understand why the child After breastfeeding and sleeping peacefully, she has to exhaust her whole body strength, understand why it is a luxury to go to the restroom safely, and understand how precious she is to arrange the whole family's food, clothing, and transportation ... Mom is not a superman. As she strives to be a good mother and wife, countless tedious details affect her nerves all the time (even just a diaper with a scab), and there will be a lot of anxiety and confusion in the process. Stress must be taken and digested. At this moment, how could anyone who witnessed all of this without distressing her, or how she didn't want to give her a big hug and kiss? 力量。 As a husband, even if you can't provide substantial support in specific actions, you can provide sufficient support psychologically and linguistically, which is a great force to support the mother to overcome difficulties and move forward happily.
Otherwise, why would Hu Ke say, "This thing is not hard at all, the hardest thing is your attitude."
In Oberman's prenatal fertility class, three words will be given to the prospective father
In the long days of parenting
This may be the sweetest love that moms hear
I love you!
Mother love is born, father love needs to be activated
陪伴与支持，从技术上，从情感上。 What we can do is to provide timely, accurate and comprehensive accompaniment and support needed by pregnant families on the road of becoming parents, technically and emotionally.
May each pair of parents gain strength, move forward happily, and leave wonderful memories in this journey of life!
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